Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Unit 9 Assessment and Goals

Unit 9 Assessment and Goals


I. Introduction: Why is it important for wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically?  What areas do you need to develop to achieve the goals you have for yourself?

 

            As a wellness professional you are should be the example of the product of health and wellness that you are trying to get your client to embrace and be enrolled in.  Optimal health is not just on a physical level, or just a mental level, it is the practice of healthy habits, making health conscious choices, and committing ourselves to a life of integral health so that our mind-body-spirit connection allows us the vehicle by which we can begin to transcend and heal our inner consciousness and experience a level of human flourishing that we have never experienced before.  As a wellness professional it would make sense that you would not want to encourage your clients to try alternative therapies and complementary medicine practices if we do not have the supported education necessary either through personal experience, another wellness professional, or client testimonials that support the possible results and uniquely contribute to the overall health of your client.

 

            I try to set goals on a daily, weekly and monthly basis.  I am such a busy person, with multiple things needing my constant attention, that if I don't at least keep a daily organizer I would forget half of what I need to get accomplished.  I have always lived a healthy life that included regular exercise and a nutritious diet.  I have always taken supplements, sleep plenty and try to keep my stress level manageable by meditating as often as possible or doing yoga.  Which makes my lack of integrity toward my health over the last 2 weeks so much more frustrating.  I am not sure if it was the unprepared death of my dog, or that I have 4 close girlfriends who are either cheating on their spouse or getting a divorce, or the exhaustion of my life plus a school schedule that has limited breaks that just finally caught up to me, but something is very off right now.  On a normal week I go to the gym at least 6 times: 3 times to my personal trainer and 3 times for yoga or to do a variety of cardio. I have not been to the gym nor do I have the any desire to work out what so ever.  On a normal day I eat 3 large meals and 2 - 3 snacks.  The last two weeks I have managed to flip a switch that does not acknowledge my appetite or am I giving my body the nutrients, food and fuel that it needs to function at a healthy level.  I am not even drinking the minimal amount of recommended water that is necessary for any level of health.  I still take my supplements on a daily basis, but I am sleeping less, unfocused and have little to no enthusiasm for anything.  I have a follow up with my Naturopathic Doctor on Thursday October 24, 2012 to go over my blood work and possibly find out if there is something going on in my body, or I have just reached mental exhaustion and need to recharge.  My goals are to recommit myself to my health and wellness by making myself accountable to my personal trainer and exercising with him at least four times per week, starting next week.  I am also going to force myself to begin eating 4 small meals per day and drinking 8 or more glasses of water per day, and making other health conscious decisions that will help me get back on track.  My integrity to my health can no longer be an option but must include daily goals that will assist me to get back to a level of optimal health, balance, and mental clarity.

 

 

 

           

 

II.  Assessment: How have you assessed your health in each domain?  How do you score your wellness spiritually, physically and psychologically?

 

            I have found myself assessing each domain of my health several different times over the last few months.  As I stated above my integrity to my health has taken a complete 360 degree turn over the last two weeks.  In doing my assessment over the last two days I have noticed that my mental exhaustion has made it hard to assess my health at its actual present state, so I am pretty sure that my overall assessments in each domain are not true to where I actually am.  I am still trying to do the Loving-Kindness exercise at least once a day, but I am not having the same experiences or results that I have had in the past.

 

             My spiritual wellness is okay but not at the level health that I would like it to be at right now.  I am still feel a sense of openness in my mind, and heart but I can tell that my chakras are not completely aligned and therefore my energies are not working in conjunction with the universe as they should be. 

 

            My physical wellness is not in a positive state of health at all.  I have not been to the gym in two weeks and the back and knee aches that remind me of my present lack of exercise have decided to make reemerge.  Exercise and physical activity is a vital part of my physical health and it is not an option to ignore its importance and necessity for my physical health anymore.  I have an appointment with my trainer tomorrow at 11 am.

 

            My psychological wellness is a blur right now.  We are presently closing down two companies and opening up three separate LLC's for our construction business.  My time management is horrible right now and that causes me to feel frustrated and over whelmed.  I am hoping that during the break between this semester and the next I am able to recharge and reignite my excitement level for school, business and my life.  So my psychological wellness is not at the level that I would like it to be for me to not feel completely overwhelmed right now.

 

 

 

 

III.  Goal Development: List at least one goal you have for yourself in each area: Physical, Psychological             (mental health) and Spiritually.

 

My physical goal is to keep my integrity with my personal trainer and not cancel my appointments no matter how unmotivated I may feel.  It is only one hour out of my day to make a positive contribution to my physical health for the rest of my life.

 

My Psychological goal is take the time of at least 2 or more hours daily, over the next two weeks and participate in activities such as yoga, meditation, my arts and crafts and being creative and to not do anything that requires me to be in a mental state other then calm and peaceful. 

 

My spiritual goal is to gather all the necessary items that are required to perform and participate in a Samhein (Halloween) spell and ritual that will allow me to reconnect with the energies that surround me and the universe.

 

 

 

IV.  Practices for Personal Health:    What strategies can you implement to foster growth in each of the following domains: Physical, Psychological and Spiritual.  Provide at least 2 examples of exercises or practices in each domain.  Explain how you will implement each example.

 

            For me the continuous practice of the same routine is the fastest and easiest way to implement growth and change.  By making something routine it soon becomes a habit that does not require me to consciously put effort toward because it is now part of  my daily routine. 

 

            Being consciously aware of where I can implement physical activity and exercise in small doses throughout my day can help foster my growth in my physical health.  Squats during commercials, lunges while cooking dinner, walking while on the phone are all examples of how I can take the void time in my day and make it a vital part of my overall exercise program.

 

            Just like implementing little bits of physical activity here and there during the day can foster your physical growth, the same application can be implemented for your psychological health.  A person does not always have to participate in meditation exercises that are for extended amounts of time, such as 30 minutes or more.  Small sessions of meditation such as 1 or 2 minutes can help initiate an almost immediate state of calm as well as the ability to rid unnecessary draining and harmful emotions and information from our consciousness before it can cause severe negative strain or sabotage our psychological health in any way.

 

            Being in the moment, several times a day is a great way to foster spiritual wellness.  Turning off the television, radio, cell phone and immersing yourself in nature or the quiet of your comfy place and allowing your senses to become aware of all that is going on around you.  This allows a person to reconfirm there place in this world as well as acknowledge all the other vital energies and organisms that are necessary for the survival of Mother Nature and the world.  Meditation is also another practice that can help you reconnect with your spiritual being and realign your energies as well as help clear your mind and open your heart.

 

 

 

V. Commitment:  How will you assess your progress or lack of progress in the next six months?  What strategies can you use to assist in maintaining your long-term practices for health and wellness.

 

            Continuous practice, habit and routine is my goal for as long as it takes for me to get back to the level of healthy in all domains that allows my life to flourish and maintain a constant state of health and wellness.  I know from previous experience that when I am at my optimal state of health, happiness and wholeness I tend to exude a feeling of calm, clarity and confidence among the individuals that are in my presence.  This balance and compassion allows me to be present and in the moment with my husband, children, family and friends in a way that is much more rewarding for me and them.  This also allows me to not just passively hear what is said to me, but to actually hear and observe the emotional state of the conversation and emotionally react in a more authentic and genuine manner.

 

            Since I my overall long-term goal is to become a Naturopathic Doctor and to open a Wellness Center here in the Phoenix area, my enrollment in long-term health and wellness practices is not a choice but essential to my success and ability to relate and treat my future patients.  I just have to get out of this two week slump, and get emotionally and mentally recharged and to consciously make choices that promote integral health as my overall state of health.

 

 

References:

 

Dacher, E. (2006) Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing, Laguna Beach, CA. Basic Health Publications Inc.

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Unit 8 - Continued practice

Unit 8 - Continued practice of meditations....

So here we are almost at the end of our class.  I have to say that I really hate to see this class go. Anyways, this week was full of surprises that always test my limits.  I did participate in my loving-kindness exercises on a more consistent basis.  I have noticed that my ability to deal has been much better, but I am also just physically exhausted.  So I am not sure if getting rid of all the unnecessary mental trash that I have been carrying around has just worn me out.  On the other hand I have noticed that I am much more aware and in the moment with the important people in my life this last week. One being my son who came home from Seattle to visit and to share with us what he has been off doing.  My son is a writer and cinematographer in a sense but at this time it is not a job that pays him any money.  He had the honor of working on a documentary that took him all across the United States last year bringing awareness to PTSD of our soldiers.  The Team Jesse project was very powerful and very moving especially because my husband is a veteran.  (www.teamjesse.org) This is the first time that I was able to see how gifted my son is and hear other people talk about what a value you he was to the overall project.  I am so very proud of him.

Out of all the exercises I still like the Loving-Kindness exercise and just basic meditation that I have used in the past through Deepok Chopra.  They seem to be the ones that get me to my inner consciousness and allow for the a deeper peace inside of me.  I used to meditate daily just to keep a spiritual balance and mental clarity.  I had gotten away from it until this class.  Now I find myself transcending more and more. 

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Unit 6 - My personal Integral Assessment

Unit 6 - My personal Integral Assessment


As I get older I find that I am assessing my life as a whole, but also assessing all the variables that contribute to my feeling of happiness, alot more often than I used to.  I am in this place in my life that I only want variables, friends, experiences and moments that make me content and happy.  As I explained in an earlier post I had to recently assess my life and the lack of focus that I was having towards school and my classes.  During those same five weeks that I lacked focus and enthusiasm for my education, just happened to be the five weeks that me and my husband and several of our friends were traveling on what seemed like perpetual vacation over six weeks.  We started in Seattle for a long weekend, then went to Burningman for 10 days, then it was off to Colorado to see friends, then off to Vegas for 4 days, then it was Palm Springs for 3 days, then we went to Boston to see friends for 5 days.  We returned home just in time for the first home, Arizona Cardinal, game of which we have season tickets.  By the time I actually got the last suitcase unpacked and could catch my breath I realized that I needed to really assess how trying to accomodate all of my friends need to see me on their turf, really adds more stress along with a feeling that I am overwhelmingly behind on everything in my life.  In reality I would probably enjoy our travels alot more if there were less of them and we were somewhere for more than 72 hours and in a blur the whole time.  Not only does it eventually take a toll on my physical wellbeing, but I begin to loose myself in all the parties and all the people.  Not to mention that it takes away from my ability to do my assignments in the time and manner that I really want to.  So the aspect of my life that is in need of tweaking is my worldly life.  I need to make more time for me and those things that make me happy, and less time trying to accomodate all the people in my life.  If they are truly my genuine friends then our relationship will not be any less special because they see less often.  The other aspect of my life that is a constant source of stress is my biological life in terms of keeping my integrity with my personal trainer and my exercise goal, as well as eating better and more often and not drinking as much.  It is so easy for the social me to rationalize a drink at dinner or going to happy hour with friends, while the "trying to be healthy the right way me" is kicking herself because I know that I will never achieve the level of health and fitness that I want if I don't make some drastic changes and stick to them. 

For me to achieve the changes that I would like to see in my worldly life and my biological life really requires me to stay focused on the goal at hand and be willing to make whatever sacrifices are needed to achieve Integral Health within all four quadrants of my life.  I need to make a committement to myself and keep my word to myself no matter what.  I know that by staying dedicated to my exercise routine and diet I will feel better and look amazing and that is what I want more than I want Happy Hour with my friends.  I have a creative side of me that often gets put on the back burner because we are traveling all the time.  I have to make time to do my hobbies, because they fulfill my need for self expression and adds happiness and enjoyment to my life. 

Unit 6 Universal Loving Kindness

Unit 6 - Universal Loving Kindness Exercise

I really feel like the benefits that I receive from the practice of any of the Loving-Kindness exercises have been extremely positive and have definately assisted me in my overall well being and mental health.  The Universal Loving Kindness exercise is a beneficial tool to practice when you need to find peace at a moments notice and you don't have the time or place to practice a whole 15 minute exercise.  I like that the Universal Loving Kindness exercise can be done anywhere at anytime, and will always have a positive and calming effect on me and allow me to refocus my energy in a way that is more rewarding for all parties involved.  I also really liked that it encourages you to really be present and in the moment with all the people that are in your life.  The only New Year's resolution that I made this year was just that "to make sure that I was present and in the moment with the people that I value in my life".  I somehow feel that by doing this I am moving from just a state of being to actually imprinting my life with possibilities and memories that I would not experience otherwise.  So far this practice has added a level of wholeness to my friendships and more openness with my husband.  I wrote the four phrases down on a card to keep in my wallet until I have them memorized.  I can see me sharing this little tool with several of my friends and family members.

Monday, October 1, 2012

The mind, body and spirit connection

The mind, body and spirit connection....

I wasn't always aware of the positive effects that my spiritual health could have on my mental and physical wellness.  It wasn't until I was seeking a more positive way of living and being that I even became aware of how powerful spirituality can be in a person's life.  The Wiccan Rede states that "All that we send into the lives of others comes back to us three-fold, both good and bad", and just from my life experiences prior to allow spirituality in my life, I can tell you the bad that comes is awful.  I had to learn to be nice and happy.  I know that sounds crazy but there was a time in my early 20's where I was just a mean person with no emotion for anyone or anything.  I would play the game persay but never actually let my guard down.  My mental wellness and my physical health have always been as healthy as the energy that I put into them.  I excelled in school and have always been very independent and creative in my ability to profit from other peoples lack of knowing.  Even in elementary school I was the girl that was charging to paint your nails at lunch or curl your hair.  I had two other girls that worked for me and I payed them a percentage of the money we made each day.  I have always been very athletic and physically active so my physical wellness has always been optimal. But I also was very hard on my physical health by excessive partying and drinking.  It is hard to find a happy medium that still allows for fun without unnecessary harm to your physical health.  Anyways at some point, the man who is now my husband, but was just a friend sat me down and very frankly told me that I didn't have to be that person and that it was okay to be vulnerable and friendly.  I realized that even though I had hurt alot of people in my life, I really hurt myself the most.  I had no idea how to even find my spiritual self.  I was baptized Methodist when I was born because my grandma liked the preacher that married my parents.  My mom was baptist but didn't go to church on a consistent basis, but I had attended Sunday School on several occassions.  My father was Atheist so in his mind there  is no possibility of a sense of spirituality or the existence of any type of god.  But his parents were Catholic so I often went to Cadykism.  Then as a child we lived in a small town where the majority of people were practicing Mormons, or belonged to the Native American Church.  Because "religion" was not a big part of our growing up, our family was shunned by most of the Mormon families, the way they treated us could probably be defined as religious discrimination.  So I had alot of experience with different religions but non of those experiences sparked anything in me other then confusion and distrust.  During this same time I was living in Portland Oregon and going through a divorce.  My boss suggested that I go to a metaphysical store and get a reading, buy a book or just look around and see if anything grabs my attention.  I was immediately drawn to Wiccan and the study of witch craft.  I was very drawn to the belief that there is no "bad" or "mean" in the genuine study of Wicca.  To be a practicing witch and to reap the endless rewards requires a committement to living your life with compassion, acceptance and kindness.  And there is was, the life transformation that I was looking for that didn't require me to be in a certain building on a certain day of the week, but a spirituality that could change me and my life course.  I will say that there are times that really test my ability to remain positive and kind even in the most challenging circumstances.  But my friend "Karma" she always has a way of balancing the energies that be without me ever breaking my spiritual committement to always living in the best light of the best possible life that I can create for me.

Unit 5 and Unit 6 seperately together

Unit 5 and Unit 6 seperately together...

In Unit 5 we were asked to compare our experience with practicing the Loving-Kindness exercise and the Subtle-Mind Exercise. After completing each practice session we were asked to report on our overall experience and what benefits or frustrations we encountered.

I meditate almost every day, and often more than once.  I have a room in our house that is just mine and it is filled with the scents, colors and decorations that are unique to me.  No matter what kind of chaos seems to happening in my life I can always go to my room and find peace.  My moments of meditation usually encompass my focus on my breathing and slowly separating myself from all that is going on around me and even letting the emotions of stress, frustration, confusion slowly exit my consciousness.  I sometimes listen to music or sounds that help put my mind at ease and bring about a state of peace.  I have been excited to practice other types of meditation and mental exercise in hopes to reaquaint myself with my psychic abilities and further my personal state of being. 

First I did the Loving-Kindness exercise.  I settled into my room away from outside distractions with the intent of only practicing for 10 to 15 minutes. In a comfortable sitting position on the floor I focused my concentration and energies on embracing and acknowledging all the familiar and unfamiliar emotions that were present in my mind.  Once I aknowledged their presence they seemed to slowly fall away from my consciousness.  I was then able to shift my attention and energy away from my outer self and even away from my present awareness and dive deep down into my inner being and visit for awile.  I will admit that even though I meditate I don't often spend quality time with my inner self like I should.  The ability to transcend into my inner self was almost effortless through the Loving-Kindness exercise.  My inner goddess was very happy to have the visit, so I decided that I would spend some quality time embracing my mind, my heart, my being, my spirit and the world.  I found a familiar peace and wholeness that comes with the ability to connect with your inner self as well as the clarity and wholeness that becomes present in my consciousness. I made sure to give myself love and gentle kindness and permission to be happy in all aspects of my life.  The overwhelming feeling of such genuine, compassionate and accepting love washed over me.  As I slowly came back to my present state of being, I was pleasently surprised to still feel like I was bursting at the seams with love.  I felt like I had opened up myself more than I think I have ever been able to do.  I really like this exercise.  I have practiced it about four more times since the first session and each time I just come away with this overwhelming feeling of love for life, for myself, for my husband and just so much love to give. 

I waited a day before I tried the Subtle Mind Exercise because I didn't want one exercise to take away from the possibilites of the other exercise.  Once again I went to my room, got comfortable and let the outside world fade away.  This exercise focuses on every aspect of your breathing.  I have often used deep breathing exercises as a way to transfer energy, anger and frustration, but I have not used deep breathing as vehicle for transending to my inner self.  It was hard for me to only concentrate on my breathing and not acknowledge and explore all the other emotions that I started feeling.  I often caught myself drifting away from my focal point and I would have to almost force myself to concentrate only on my breathing.  I believe that I did get to a mental state of inner consciousness but it wasn't nearly the experience that I had with the Loving-Kindness exercise. 

Unexpected events.....



***Something unexpected happened today....
So just when you think that you have everything in your life under control, god manages to throw in an unexpected event that really tests your emotional health and your ability to cope. 
I cannot have kids (that is a whole other story) but I have animals.  I always have an even number so that everyone has a friend or a special someone to love.  Me and my husband received Bruiser, a chihuahua puppy, as a wedding gift when we married 10 years ago this month.  Bruiser had an innate ability to always keep me and my husband together.  For Bruiser's one year birthday we got him a little apple head chihuahua girlfriend named Lola.  Lola and Bruiser were the perfect couple.  They fell in love, nurtured their relationship and just grew together in ways that often seemed more human than dog.  Bruiser had a stroke in March and we had to put him down.  It was devastating to me and my husband, but poor Lola was just lost.  Bruiser had been such a big part of her life since she was 6 weeks old.  After Lola mourned her loss she started to integrate herself more into our daily lives again, but she was just so sad.  She was like this little widowed puppy with a broken heart.  I knew in my heart that she would not be around for much longer because of her broken heart.  Well it happened unexpectedly this morning.  She has had a cough that is a side effect of her contracting Valley Fever a couple of years ago.  She is such a tough little girl that she would have never let us know that she was not feeling well.  We were maintaining her cough with medicine and she had no other outward signs of illness.  But this morning she coughed and just couldn't catch her breath.  My suspicions are that she managed to get a cold and possibly pneumonia and with fluid in her lungs her ability to breath was compromised.  I knew though that she wanted to go and I needed to let her.  She cuddled up next to me, looked right in my eyes and seemed to tell me that she just couldn't go on without her beloved Bruiser.  I stayed up with her all night and held her until her very last breath.  My animals are like my children and even though I would have loved to have more time with Lola I know that her heart was just to broken and she had to go to Bruiser.  Letting her go was one of the hardest things I have ever done.  But I am comforted knowing that Bruiser and Lola are once again together and being in love.

Just me talking.....

Hi everyone, 
I hope that all is positive in your lives and happiness is present for you each and every day.  So have you ever heard the saying "when it rains it pours"?  Well that seems to be my life right now.  Just when it seems that I can't possibly take on one more thing, two things that need my attention actually appear.  I am a good multi-tasker, why do one thing when you can be doing two, but I have to say that it much harder trying to keep your already busy life on track while continueing your education through Kaplan.  I started this journey in March of 2010 and literally have not had a break.  Well you know, it is school, reading, studying, assignments for 10 weeks, some teachers are nice and really work you for only 9, but regardless that one week off in between really doesn't seem like a break at all.  And then before you know it you are doing it all over again.  I am a good student and I really enjoy school, but for some strange reason over the last four weeks I was having a really hard time not procrastinating, not focusing on my school work and really just not excited.  I found that I was really concentrating more on just being present in my house, with my dogs, with my friends, with my husband, cleaning and finishing some projects that have been left behind for quite awhile.  I traveled alot for work and pleasure and really enjoyed myself.  But I also was having this inner fight with myself about my lack of integrity toward my classes and my professors.  The up side is that now in Unit 6 I am re-energized and ready to go, but the down side is my grades have fallen and I am behind in my work.  Playing catch up is not anything I would recommend, because it literally seems that I have spent the last 7 days on my computer and in my books for 12 to 15 hours a day.  That in itself is more work than if I had just got out of my own way and stayed focused.  Alot of my friends are also going to college right now, but they actually go to a campus.  They have two main semesters a year and can go to summer school if they want.  Alot of them took the summer off, and I will say I was a bit jealous at the break they took without guilt, while I was in the back of boat, on the plane, in the car, at the table doing my school work.  I get that in the end I will have achieved my goal alot faster than them, but it does become somewhat exhausting to have school as a second job for 2 or 3 consistent years.  Ok I said it, and I am actually doing very good this week and my energy and excitement is once again present and ready to work.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Unit 4 - Mental Workout

What is the concept of "mental workout". What does research indicate are the proven benefits of a mental workout? How can you implement mental workouts to foster your psychological health?

There are not many things in life that can be achieved and maintained without nuturing and practice.  We don't learn to read just by opening a book, it takes time and practice.  We don't learn how to master walking, running or playing sports just by being on the field, or on the court, we have to practice, practice and practice.  Sometimes we have to practice and fail, get up and practice some more before we actually learn.  Everything we know and do is something that we achieved from practicing over and over again.  The same dedication is necessary for our psychospiritual health if we wish to achieve the maximum benefits that it has to offer. The concept of "mental workout" is diligently setting aside at least one hour per day to partake in one or both of the contemplative practices that exercise our ability to connect with our consciousness and inner self.  Through the consistent effort to practice these two contemplative practices we are able to diminish our personal level of self-centerdness and open up our mind, hearts and souls to all of the life that is around us.  It helps us to be a peace with our existence in this world. 

Research has shown that when people stop worrying so much about themselves and their lives and actually spend that energy on helping, accepting and loving others, they are happier and more fulfilled then ever before.  I believe that you have to give to get, so if you are always helping others when you need it someone will help you.  A person cannot be selfish with all the love, compassion, kindness, hope, faith and generosity that they are given.  We are each overflowing with goodness that we can give.  Research has also shown that people who practice mental workouts such as loving-kindness tend to be healthier and have less stress because they do not internalize every little detail to the point of stress. 

The only way to strengthen your psychospiritual life and the health of your consciousness is to meditate and practice using the contemplative exercises describe in our book.  There are other methods that are helpful also.  The overall goal is to get your mind to its peaceful natural state and nurture your inner self.  I am sure that after practicing for a consistent amount of time it will become easier and almost natural to be in touch with your psychospiritual side and the rewards wisdom, knowledge, health and happiness will be way beyond what you ever imagined.

Unit 4 (late)

Unit 4 (late)

I already try to incorporate meditation into my daily routine.  It doesn't always happen because I am forever doing a hundred things at one time it seems.  My life is an ebb and flow, because it rotates around our construction drilling business.  In the drilling business it is either feast or famine, but never consistent.  So there are times that I am trying to manage the office of the drilling company, manage my clothing boutique, manage my household, be a wife, be a mother, be a friend, be a student, volunteer for my husbands foundation (www.vettix.org) and design jewelery, clothing and unique pieces of leather.  Some days things just flow and I can devote time to everything on my list.  Other days it is chaos from the time I get up until I pass out from exhaustion.  I am making head way in my goal of making more time for my spiritual health and Wicca by dedicating one room in our house as "my" room where I can escape.  In this room I feel free, relieved, and at peace.  This is where I try to start my day and where I like to end my day if at all possible.  The problem is that once I get into "my" room I don't want to leave. 

Because I have practiced meditation, the Loving-Kindness exercise was just another technique for opening my heart and embracing myself and all of life.  I did really feel a sense of openness, compassion and love when I expanded my focus beyond those who reside in my life and to those beyond who are suffering right now.  It seems that are world is full of people who have lost hope and I have so much compassion for them.  I would definately recommend this practice to others because I truly believe that the practice of Loving-Kindness does open up your heart and allow emotions to be felt that are often pushed aside. 

What a week....

Well last week and unit 4 came and went so fast.  It is weeks like the last couple that make me seriously wonder how I ever thought I could fit school into my already over booked life.  But I successfully made it through, but my school work took a beating.  But it was all worth it because the work that we are doing is really impacting people everywhere.

So a little history.... My husband loves sports, especially football.  We have one of those "we interrupt this marriage to bring you the football season" kind of marriages.  I have tried to embrace this love of his, even taking a workshop to try and understand the game better.  Which it did help me to understand the game better, but it didn't ignite this football passion inside.  We have season tickets to the Arizona Cardinals (I know) and that allowed us to get two tickets to the Superbowl when it was here in Phoenix in 2008.  Well I had already been to a Superbowl a few years earlier in Detroit (Seattle/Pittsburgh) and really didn't have any desire to go again, especially when I wasn't fond of either team that was playing.  So I gave my ticket to the only other person that I know who loves football as much as my husband, his best friend Mike.  So Mike is a Navy Veteran and my husband is a Marine Veteran and they have that "military brotherhood" mindset about them, and they were very affected by all the military personnel that were involved in the opening ceremonies but then not allowed to stay for the game.  This was especially bothersome since there were so many empty seats in the stadium.  So they started a non-profit 501c3 foundation called The Veteran Tickets Foundation or Vettix for short (www.vettix.org).  So for the last 4 years Mike, my husband and 3 other founding members have volunteered endless hours making phone calls, writing letters and going to meetings to try and obtain as many donated tickets as possible to anything and everything.  Then they turn around and give the tickets without prejudice to veterans, active military and their families as a "thank-you" for service and sacrifice.  How does it work you ask?  Well people do have to go sign up and then mail in a copy of their DD214 for validation.  You have to imagine the magnitude of what these guys were taking on. There is no other foundation out there like this.  And at a time when times are tough and budgets are tight, they are able to give people a night off to go have some fun.  There are endless thank-you's from people.  It really has touched me in a way I didn't expect.  Who knew that angels wore dogtags.
So last week we were in Boston trying to get those teams to donate to Vettix.  That is one of the last cities that we need to partnership with, but boy are they tough.  We will get them though.....

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Unit 3 Activities

Unit 3 Activities

I don't think that I need to implement any new habits or activities into my life at this time.  I just need to consistently enroll myself in those activities that I know bring about the results that I want in all three areas.  I am fortunate that I have a great support system of friends and best friends and I get to see my besties at least once a month.  They have made a radical difference in the quality of my life and the things that are of the utmost importance to me. 

Unit 3 Goals

Unit 3 Goals

I am very fortunate that I share a life with a husband who thinks like I do and has the same mental, physical and psychological mentality that I do.  One of the best gifts any of our friends ever gave us was the suggestion to have a marriage counselor as a valid part of a healthy marriage.  And they were right, for ten years we have had our wonderful marriage, personal, family counselor in our life breaking our marriage down into workable goals and one month at a time.  After all forever can seem like a very long time without a referee. So with this in mind I would set my goals as such:

A - Physical Wellbeing Goal:  We travel alot so it is easy for me to be social and drink beer.  About six months ago I set the goal that I was not going to drink during the week, and I would only drink two beers per night on the weekends if we were out.  Well with Burningman and football (We interrupt this marriage to bring you the football season) it is easy to consume more alcohol then I would like.  So my physical goal is to be more mindful of my diet and specifically drinking and to do some form of physical activity each day when we are traveling.  For instance this weekend we will be in Boston, so I think some walking around in the city would be a healthy alternative instead of grabbing a cab everywhere. 

B - Spiritual Wellbeing Goal:  I am coming off of such a spiritual and magical week at Burningman with the full moon and all and I would like to keep my spiritual awareness more present in my daily activities.  My goal is to meditate each day, practice my spells and be the Witch that I claim to be every hour of every day.

C - Psychological Wellbeing Goal: My goal here is to keep my mind and my personal relationship with me as healthy as possible and not let the negetive, unhealthy and unhappiness that is currently residing in some of my closest friends and family members lives to infiltrate my life.  I need to keep my boundaries, be helpful and supportive with enough room to breath.  It is okay for me to be a ear to listen, or a voice of reason but I can't be the "fixer" of all that is wrong.  They must find that in themselves. 

Unit 3 Blog Assignment

Unit 3 Blog Assignment

It may have been just a happy coincidence that I spent most of the day trying to concentrate on school and my mind constantly wandering back to the Playa and Burningman.  Many of us who attend the festival say we are going "home" as we make the yearly trek to Black Rock City.  I have been alot of places in the world, but nowhere as simple and yet so fulfilling and magical as Burningman.  The experiences and memories you make there really transcend your life for the better.  So today as much as I tried to fight it I was reflecting those magical 10 days.  Therefore I couldn't help but reflect on my life back here in Peoria and smile that I have so much to be thankful for, and that my life is filled with so many great people and such overwhelming love and happiness.  So based on these reflections I would rate on a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being optimal well being):

A - Physical Wellbeing is currently at around a healthy 8 - 9.  I am not the healthiest I could be in regards to BMI even though I exercise consistently with a personal trainer 4 times a week.  This is the first time that I am loosing weight by following healthy eating habits and exercise.  In the past I was the anorexic/bulimic just don't eat mentality for weight loss.  The problem is that the more great foods my husband introduces me to, the harder it is to just stop eating, not to mention how unhealthy it is.  So at 5'4" and 131 lbs I have made the attempt at eating more and working out more and slowly watching my body morph.  Besides my personal trainer I am on the go all day long.  I don't sit down except to do homework :) or eat...What is that saying "When my feet hit the ground in the morning the devil says S*%t she's up".

B - Spiritual Wellbeing is currently at a high of 10 right now.  I am a practicing Witch and there was a full moon on the friday at Burningman.  There is nothing like you, other like minded people, the moon and mother earth to lift your spiritual energies up to run wild.  This class has also had a very positive effect on my spiritual wellbeing. It is nice to see validation in writing in regards to your personal beliefs in one's ability to control and dictate their health, well-being and life. 

C - Psychological Wellbeing is currently at a 8 to 9 I would say.  It would be a 10 all the time except that I have the pleaser of working with not so positive, always ill employees on a daily basis.  There are also many family members and my step-son that are dealing with health issues, or mental health issues and it is necessary but at times difficult to stay enrolled enough to help but not so much that it becomes my problem. 

Overall my life is the perfect, perfect for me.  I am healthy, happy, in love, achieving goals, spiritually in-tune, socially active, humble and appreciative for the life that I get to live and the people I get to share my life with. I have a great husband, wonderful stepsons, extraordinary friends and really no complaints.

Burningman 2012

Hi all......here's hoping you are all healthy and happy in your life journey.  I am still in my Burningman bubble :)   It is really hard to immerse yourself back into this society when you have spent 10 days in a completely opposite mindset with 60,000 other wonderful people.  If you have never heard of Burningman go check out www.burningman.com. It truly is a magical, spiritual, fun, positive, happy, heart warming, more love then you know what to do with....kind of experience.  This was our 2nd year and we are already planning next years trek to Black Rock City. 

So the upside is that I am still in my positive, loving, happy Burningman bubble.  The downside is that I spent to much time out on The Playa during it's many white out dust storms this year and brought a little, well probably alot of it home with me in my lungs.  I tried to ignored the raspy voice, scratchy throat and my sick husband, but doubling up on the vitamins, sleep and fluids just couldn't make it go away.  So yesterday I started a Z pack and hopefully this respiratory infection won't get to comfortable and will move on.  I don't got time to be sick... places to go and people to see.

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

About me.....

Hi there...... I wanted to tell you a little about myself.  I am 42 years old

The journey of education

Today I started my 9th Semester at Kaplan. I am one step closer to my goal of being a Naturopathic Doctor and opening a Wellness Center.